I’m Hot, You’re Not – Can Different Sex Drives Ruin a Relationship? (Sponsored Content)

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I’m Hot, You’re Not – Can Different Sex Drives Ruin a Relationship?

Wait, what? No, never! Our relationship is not all that about sex. There are other things in that our relationship stands on. We have common interests! We share that precious romantic moments when we feel good just holding hands. When it comes to romantic relationship, feeling comfortable with just sleeping next to each other is much more important. Different sex drives cannot ruin our romantic relationship! Or can it?

Don’t Underestimate Sex

Of course, romantic relationship is much more than just sex. You are not far away from the truth saying that a romantic relationship is more about love than about sex. Still, you shouldn’t underestimate sex, unless you are a couple of asexuals. At first, when you are at the first stages of your relationship, you are going to have a lot of sex. You are going to have sex everyday, or if you are not living together, you are going to have sex on every date. But as your relationship develop, you are getting fed up with sex and focus on other activities with your partner. Your partner is going to be okay with that only when he or she has the same sexual drive as you.

Irritation

You are both getting irritated. Let’s assume that your partner has a stronger sexual drive than you do. You have this romantic atmosphere, sitting on the couch watching a movie, and you feel absolutely happy with that. Then, your partner starts touching you, kissing you, hinting on sex. But you are not into sex today. You are into watching a movie. As a result, either you will submit to your partner desires, or you are going to have a fight, as both of you are irritated. You are irritated with his or her mood for sex, while your partner is irritated with your absence of mood for sex. See how different sexual drives can cause a lot of problems?

Disappointment

Sooner or later the one with the stronger sexual drive is going to get disappointed with his or her partner. As a result you are going to face a lot of fights because you never want sex when your partner wants. Of course, you are also going to get disappointed, as you know yourself. That no one is going to get pleasure out of sex when one has to overcome his or her own absence of desire. That’s you sexual drive and that’s probably a natural thing, it’s like blaming you for having eyes of a particular colour. Or, maybe, it’s your girlfriend fault and he or she just can’t turn you on.

Compromises

In the end you there are only two options to solve this problem. Either you are going to split, and find partners that will fit your sexual drives, or you are going to talk it over. The difference in sexual drives is one of the problems that partners must work on in a romantic relationship. Everything depends on how valuable your partner is for you. If you think that your romantic relationship is worth fighting, you will find away to solve this problem. If you think otherwise, than ending your relationship is the most logical solution of this issue.

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